Dear Family and Friends,
The
ward is awesome. We have had probably half of our active members move
in within the past year or so, so everyone is new and willing to serve!
It's wonderful. A sweet grandma and grandpa moved in and had us over
for lunch. They were from Illinois, Jessie's stake actually! And they
reminded me so much of Mom and Dad, just talking about their grandchildren non stop :) He has been a branch president and bishop
before, so they are just such solid members we are excited! And they
live in the apt complex of a less active member, so we are trying to
help them make some friends! Fact: I now like chicken salad, hers was
delicious.
Another newer family are the Palmers. He served in this
mission a few years ago, and went through his journals to give us names
of people who should have been baptized, or may have fallen away since
they aren't in the ward. We are working on it, but member referrals are
the best. And member referrals from previous missionaries from this
area are THE best. We already found an awesome family who is ready to
come back to church, and the boyfriend of the woman is not a member, so
we are hoping to teach him soon!
We had a less active guy refer himself online this week,
and we have been working with him. Lots of anxiety, and depression. Life
has just hit him hard. He was an actor and lived in New york. It didn't
pan out, so he's back home here now. So words of caution- Matt Krantz,
don't become an actor in New York! Or anyone else- Monica? haha, just
kidding she's at Harvard. But Stephen is awesome, and ready for big
change in his life.
We got to go to the temple!!! Ahh so exciting! It was a
wonderful day, and just very peaceful. I am so grateful for temples, and
that we have them accessible to us. Don't ever take it for granted if
you live near one! The Spirit that abides in the temple is so powerful. I
am grateful that we are able to enter the temple and have the
opportunity to be so close to Heavenly Father in prayer and Spirit.
DAN- the pizza man. He works at pap johns. He went
camping with his friend this weekend, so we didn't get to see him. But
before he left, he asked a member for a priesthood blessing!? WHAT? So
now we just need to help him understand, priesthood, restored,
authority, baptism. Right? Of course, he's 23 so it won't be so easy. We
can just see so clearly the love Heavenly Father has for him, and the
potential he has in this life! We want him to be married in the temple,
and have an eternal family! We are being as patient as possible.
I had to give a training at District Meeting, and it went
alright. I really like to talk apparently? I started with the story of
Enos, who prayed all day and all night, for multiple days! and how he
showed Heavenly Father that he was prepared to make a change in his life
he received the answer he was seeking for. And then, he prayed for his
brethren, and how he could help them. It reminded me of something I
learned about the story of Joseph Smith as well. When Joseph was trying
to know which church to join, and he knelt down in prayer, he didn't
simply ask which church was true. He asked Heavenly father, which of all
the churches are true, that I might know which to join?' He showed
Heavenly Father that he had faith to act upon whatever answer he was
given. It makes me reevaluate how I pray. Something I had written in my
scriptures was this: The purpose of prayer is not information, but
transformation. Maybe, if we prayed with more faith and sincere intent,
showing God that we would act on the answer we receive, no matter what
that turns out to be, we would be receiving more direct answers, like
Enos and Joseph Smith. I am definitely trying to be more specific in the
questions I ask, and more sincere in the prayers I give. I have seen in
my life specific prayers answered so very uniquely to me, and that's
something we can all have. I love that truth!
We have begun teaching really awesome, prepared family,
the Roaches! They will be baptized within the next transfer I believe.
They just understand everything we have taught. They are reading the
Book of Mormon, and praying. And next week they will be at church! Their
son, 23 Logan was kind of a bum, but once he started reading the BOM,
he's realized that his life means so much more, and he has been blessed
so much that he should be turning to help others! It's been a huge eye
opener to him, and his parents! And us as missionaries. It's incredible
to see people turn their lives around. Only the truth can do that!
This week, I am so grateful for solid members of the ward
who have such wonderful spirits in their home. We had dinner with the
Horlacher family, the lady who sent the picture home, and it was
honestly just an hour of solid relief from the trials and challenges of
missionary work. Mom and Dad, I am so grateful that our home is that
too. Always sign up to have the missionaries over! Even if it feels
awkward to you, it's not to them, so don't hesitate! It's a huge
blessing, and I see it as a tender mercy from the Lord. And the food was
really good. Gravy is pretty big here.
I experienced my first tornado/ storm this week! It was
pretty exciting! I have never seen lightning like that before, in my
life. It was pretty intense. The WHOLE sky was lit up! It didn't touch
down in our area, but we were told to go in early. We were in our
complex in a lesson already, so we couldn't but we felt safe. Just hard
rain and wind. Pretty exciting! The weather has been really nice these
past few days! But apparently we have snow coming soon. I think if its
warm in California, its decently warm here. And if it rain there, it
snow here. Probably a 20-30 degree difference either way.
I have officially worked out every day for a month! I am proud. Y'all should be too. Sister Cotton and I are on this health kick- don't gain weight. Just do whatever it takes! It's hard when potatoes are part of every meal, and we get homemade bread every week. But that's ok, through small and simple things right? :) We are so blessed, our apt complex has a small fitness center, so even when it's cold, we go run on the treadmill or elliptical- Jessie and Kylie :)- or the arm and leg machine.
I have officially worked out every day for a month! I am proud. Y'all should be too. Sister Cotton and I are on this health kick- don't gain weight. Just do whatever it takes! It's hard when potatoes are part of every meal, and we get homemade bread every week. But that's ok, through small and simple things right? :) We are so blessed, our apt complex has a small fitness center, so even when it's cold, we go run on the treadmill or elliptical- Jessie and Kylie :)- or the arm and leg machine.
Funny stories: This week I heard my first "I've already
been saved". We were trying to contact an in active member, and turns
out she's moved. But the lady who came to the door and talked with us
asked what church we were from, etc, etc, and then Sister Cotton says,"
would you like to hear a message about Jesus Christ? " And she says "No,
I've already been saved." I almost started laughing. But I didn't.
Apparently, that's pretty common here in the Bible belt. It was still
funny :) But at the same time, a little sad.
SO I mentioned the adult daycare place called wings
right? Well there is one lady there suffering from dementia, so there
are days that she thinks she is a mom, and other days she thinks she is a
little girl, etc etc. Well, we were teaching about how we were created
in the image of God, and how we look like him, and we know that he looks
like us! We said, we all have eyes, and ears, and a nose, mouth, and
teeth. And when I said teeth- she pops out her dentures! Just full on
pops them out, and gives me a great big grin! It was probably the
cutest, most disgusting, most surprising moment of my mission. I just
laughed and laughed for a solid 5 minutes. It was awesome. I learned, we
don't mention teeth to her, or else...
So a sweet sweet member drove us to the temple so we
didn't have to use our miles for the month- we have 1000- and she gave
us a ride back too. This is the member who's husband is a dentist. Oh,
and Corinne I thought of you when they fed us a week or two ago, she
made Talapia! It was pretty good. Lot's of people like fish out
here....weird. Anyway, she picked us up, and on our way home we got so
so so lost. From the temple, somehow we ended up at the airport in
Nashville, drove by Oprey mills mall, and then eventually made it to
Hendersonville. It was quite a ride. I was in back with her adorable
little 4 year old, Easton. We played high five for about an hour.
Awesome family :)
Corinne- no letter? I need to know about BYU, the party, the piano teacher, and mom and dad :)
Erin- awesome letter! Love it!
Erin- awesome letter! Love it!
Dave- you too, gold stars for the Rackhams
Annie and Russ- no stars. not even silver or blue.
Jeremy and Sierra- also no stars.
Christi-
thanks! Send me pictures please!!!!!! Good to hear from Jim :) By the
way Jim, a Stephen talked to us about shaving down his beard, and I
laughed cause it reminded me of you. Also, where did your parents serve
as mission presidents?
Dad- I am so sorry to hear about the lady quitting, but I am
so glad that your prayers were answered! That is a pretty awesome story.
I'll pray this week for the assistant you need, and when it happens,
let Kathleen and Danielle know it was both of us, and Heavenly Father.
Then invite them to church? Haha, just kidding. Or am I? ALSO- Sister
Cotton's best friend is looking for an assisting job! She is in Utah
right now, at U of U, but she really needs a job. She asked sister
Cotton to ask me to ask you if you have anyone in Utah that you refer
her too? I have no idea if we know anyone in Utah, but definitely talk
with her. She might be willing to come to California? Who knows, it
could work out great! I don't know all the details, but any help you
could give her would be really great. Sister Cotton loves her to death,
says she is a great girl. She has assisted in all types of offices and
says she can do basically anything that is required in a dental office.
Let me know if anything comes of it!
Taylor Southwick
Mom-
thanks for the emails, even the short letter :) Love it! Sorry to hear
you were sick :/ But glad you are better. Keep helping the missionaries
in any way you can, and read that book! Also, I am glad you are a Dr.who
fan, because I've really been able to connect with some people out here
because of my limited knowledge. "Which doctor do you like best?" :)
Also, I am doing totally great, my bag rocks- tell Christi- and my shoes
are perfect. I have the right amount of warm and cold, and my jackets
are just right. We were definitely inspired in our decision of
clothing. :) And I am so glad you sent pictures home! Oh, and I am
definitely always safe! We have a full time car, so nothing can really
happen to us. We've only been in the ghetto once, and it was not even in
our area, we were just asked to teach a sister who needed to be taught
by sisters. So don't worry! I love getting letters! From anyone and
everyone :) ***Could you maybe send me my new testament notes? I was
trying to remember some thing I couldn't get straight. They are on my
hardrive. Not email, tangible please? Oh and Corinne! MUSIC PLEASE. we
don't have cds and at the time, ipods aren't allowed. we need it for our
car, we don't have any! Everything we bought was allowed. Please send
it!
Last random fact- Mom, the Bishop's wife looks just like
you! It's scary. Her hair is really what gets me. She plays piano, and I
always just think its you for a split second. It's weird.
Transfers are in two weeks, and Sister Cotton thinks she
might be going. I sure hope not! Praying hard for it. We love the area,
and the ward, and the people. I love missionary work! Nothing more
trying, or rewarding! missing you all a lot, but still so very excited
to be here!
Remember I love you all, and I know Heavenly Father does too!
Sister Penrod